I've Written Off 3CG
I used to try very hard to be there for folks in 3CG but the fact is they haven't done very well by me. Almost no one has bothered to keep up with me with the exception of one or two people. And I mean that. whereismypraire has kept up with me probably more than anyone else except jackietheknife & monkeyman and they live with me. She keeps up with me when she has the time. No one and I mean no one has even tried. So screw 3CG. I left my schedule for blots, and classes for K-9 flexible so that people from 3CG would possibly be able to attend. And other than avangrdnpriestes who lived with me at the time, not one person from the grove did dirt. So screw them. But they want people to go to their things and become members and they require people to go to so fucking many of their rites in a year before they even consider them up for membership. If they can't even come to a single blot from my Kindred they can go jump in a lake. Reciprocation is required in my world. That's part of being in any kind of relationship, otherwise, there is nothing.
